House Rules
Treat someone’s account like you’re in their home. Respect their house rule…...or get kicked out.
Basic
Your gender, age, sexuality, race, beliefs, struggles, and the internet are not excuses for being disrespectful! I go by the statement, “Treat others the way you want to be treated.” It is an extremely simple concept. Respect is earned, not given. Think before you speak!
If you wanna have an issue with me
I don’t do internet drama, gossip, internet back-and-forth, or whatever you wanna call it. I’m a tired grown woman. We can talk face-to-face, or you can shut the fuck up.
IMPORTANT
If you actively need to find an excuse to be toxic, then don’t be surprised when people want nothing to do with you.
It is not mandatory for ANYONE to tolerate your behavior ANYWHERE.
You decided to be a jackass. No one "made" you be that way.
What will get you immediately blocked?
I don't even have to talk to you.
I can just see your actions.
Like everybody else!
| Accusing EVERYTHING is AI | I hate AI more than the next guy, but fucking use your brain for five minutes! I have seen actual artist, writers, and voice actors get accused with either no evidence or with the DUMBEST explanation on the planet. IF YOU CAN'T TELL, DON'T BE THE JUDGE!! If you're doing it because you don't like them for whatever DUMBASS reason... you're an idiot!! |
| Acting Like The People You Claim You Don’t Like | This is what society calls a hypocrite. Antis, pros, I stand with, kick, whatever the fuck you want to call yourselves; if you act the same, I'm gonna see you as the same and you’ll be treated the same way as anyone else on this list. Simple as that. |
| Acting Stupid | I am not in the mood for that. If you’re gonna play stupid, I’m gonna treat you like you’re stupid. |
| Artists Shouldn’t Bully Other Artists | That has NEVER been the way of promoting your art. It’s just pathetic and sad. You’re never gonna get followers that way and you’ll 100% be on an Artist Beware and/or an Artist Watchlist with that attitude. |
| Being A Bigot. | Racism, LGBTphobia, or sexism of ANY kind is NOT welcomed! |
| Being A Control Freak Or Having A God Complex. | I draw what I want, dress how I want, talk to whoever I want, and block whoever I want. No one owns me, nor do I owe them my time, patience, or sanity. I am a human being, not your robot. |
| Being Gullible | If you want to fall for the common denominator's gimmicks, then don't follow my accounts. I believe in facts, research, and numbers, not opinions, attitude, word-of-mouth or memes. |
| Being A Troll | I am not even going to give you the time of day. You were never wanted in life. You're just a waste of oxygen. |
| Being Negative On A Positive/Up-lifting Post | That’s not a healthy mindset. There are therapists for that. Also, don’t be surprised and/or irrationally upset that people are disgusted by you. Go be miserable in private. |
| Bring Up Random Internet Drama Or Politics On A Non-related Post. | I just wanna draw and be goofy. I am not here to inflate your ego. |
| Committing Whataboutism | Just because you don’t like a particular group of people, acting like a petty piece of shit during the wrong time and place will make you look like a loser. Learn to refrain, it’s not that hard. |
| Destructive Criticism. | If you cannot learn the difference between Constructive vs Destructive; (especially when you have the entire internet available) then I have zero reasons to listen to you. |
| Gaslighting | Don’t…just don’t. Manipulation/abuse will not work here. |
| Idolizing People | That parasocial shit ain't cute. We all know you're not loved and you never will be. You're making yourself the most punch-able person in existence. Those people will not care if you get beaten up. |
| Ignoring A Restriction (Ex. Mature rating/settings). | I make NSFW. OBVIOUSLY, it’s not for minors. I will only post NSFW art/stories on sites with M+ Ratings applied to them along with the disclaimer, “MINORS. DON'T. INTERACT.” Starting drama over this will only show that you can’t read or follow basic directions. |
| Instigating, then acting like a victim | The only thing you're a victim of is your own stupidity. Nothing else! |
| Making Sexual Comments About An Underage (Under 18) OC. | This is self-explanatory, DON’T BE A CREEP. Also, don't excuse the creep's behavior just because you're "friends". |
| Playing the Victim | Just because you are not getting your way does not mean you can use words like “harassment” or “bullying.” Also, it is considered highly childish to abuse the report button just because you are not getting your way. People will NEVER take you seriously when you act that way. And frankly, I don’t have the patience. |
| Trauma Dumping. | Had this happen, so I'm just gonna say... I'm not your therapist. I'm not forced to solve your problems. |
| Using Phrases To Be Condescending. | Phrases like “Bestie”, “Sis”, “It’s the internet” and/or “That’s my opinion” before or after a rude remark will not be tolerated. |
When Critiquing
| Know the difference between Constructive and Destructive. | There are books, articles, videos, literally everything you need to know about these two terms. You do not have an excuse. |
| At least know the terms' meaning when you use them. (Ex. Caricatures, Color theory, Hyperrealism, etc.) | Just because you saw the word once, does not mean you automatically know the whole meaning of the word. You. Have. The. Internet. Research what the terms are! |
| Be respectful | Again, nobody on this planet is obligated to put up with you. |
| Avoid personal attacks, blaming, hostile, and/or insulting language | This is literally not how constructive criticism works. |
| Realize that the artist does not have to draw your preferred art style. | It makes no sense to go to a cartoon artist’s account and complain how there is no realism art on it. No, duh…it’s a cartoon account. Not everyone wants to draw realism. Not everyone wants to see realism and vice versa. Make it make sense. |
| Realize that the artist is under no obligation to take your advice. | This is mostly directed at rude individuals. You are not the only one on this planet, you are not the “end all, be all” for the artist. Control your urge in thinking you own another human being. |
No one asked nor chose abuse. It's their mental health that they have a right to look after. They can choose to kick you out.